As soon as you step into your new house after marriage, every girl has the first fear of what her mother-in-law will be like. Would not the father-in-law be more angry? How will you deal with them! But believe me it is not so difficult to set tuning with your in-laws, specially your mother-in-law. Just keep in mind some things, you too can become the best daughter-in-law for your in-laws!
- Do not create Opinion in advance
After your marriage you will know that your mother-in-law is not like the mother-in-law who is shown in daily soaps. And really no mother-in-law is as bad as these films and TV serials have made, so it would be better. Do not make an opinion about them in advance. Your love and respect for them will also melt their heart.
- Be friend with mother in law
If you want to keep your in-laws happy, then the easiest way is to keep your mother-in-law happy, is to befriend them. Tell some stories and stories of your childhood, share some secrets that do not harm you. Being casual does not show disrespect from anywhere. Generate your common interest – Raj Kapoor’s songs, gossip in kitchens and so on.
- As much as possible, take advice
You have any problem, any confusion, you can take advice of your in-law. This will help you as well, they will also like that you think their opinion is important.
- Honor, get respect and love in discount
You have come to make your place in a new family and want to keep your traditions maintained, but do not forget to give importance to their traditions too. Civilization does not come by just touching the feet and placing the pallu on the head, treat them like your family. Always avoid highlighting any imperfection. We guarantee you get lots of love in return.
- Don’t forget yourself
Always being sweet, agreeing on everything seems fake, it won’t last long. Keep yourself as your husband liked you.
- Set some boundaries
Always negotiation is also not a very good habit, set your own limits. Keep in mind that the decisions you are taking for them keep you happy. By compromising your happiness you will not be able to keep them happy.
- Express love too
Your mother in law looks good in that saree? So let them know. Everyone likes complements, and if those people ever praise you, then openly accept. Don’t forget to gift their favorite perfume and sweater to them. Further, if you can take care of birthday day and Anniversary, then it would be awesome.
- No need to share everything with husband
He can always take one’s side which is natural. If you complain to husband, you might regret later. So do not make any mistake like complaint at all.
- Find your own happiness
There is something special in every human being. You have to explore it. The same thing can make your relation more beautiful. Be positive!
- Be practical
Along with your entry in the in-laws, your mother-in-law and sister-in-law feel a little insecure and it is obvious. Do not feel bad about it. Everything goes fine, slowly. If there is a debate on something, then you should express your disagreement, but do not answer publicly and do not say anything that you will later regret. Apologize for your mistakes, but don’t expect this from others.
- Be with everyone
Give everyone the right advice for health or career. Follow them in their good and bad times. Remember that you are married only to your husband, but the relationship is with the whole family.